Sunday, May 15, 2011

Is it fair enough ?

Family starts from your parents . A woman and a man who are strangers before get to know each other . And from there , a baby was born and that was YOU . They are the one who take care of you , give you what you want instead of what you need . They are the one who raise you up . Keep supporting you no matter what .

For instant , you guys ada seorang kawan . She have everything . Family , parents , money , car and her life is surrounded by her parent's wealth . Dia dapat semua benda yang dia nak . EVERYTHING . You want a new car , nahh terpampang depan mata kereta baru . Day night , enjoy with parent's money . Umur dah tinggi tinggi , topup pun still parents bagi . Cakap je nak berape . Cakap je nak ape .

Every single day , mak dia akan call tanya khabar . Dah makan ke ? Dengan sape ? Dekat mane ?

But then , si anak ni selalu sangat menipu si mak . Bila mak call , cakap tinggi tinggi suara . Bercakap tak penah tade perkataan 'uhh' . Bile mak cakap lebih sikit , bentak bentak . Ish sana ish sini . Tapi si mak tetap melayan kerenah anak . Langsung tade nak nasihatkan anak . Marah jauh sekali .

Si anak siang malam keluar , joli sana sini . The best part is bila mak tanya ada dekat mana , cakap ada dekat rumah . Padahal ada dalam kereta otw to somewhere . Mak belum sempat cakap habes lagi , si anak dah okay maa . bye bye bye .

I'm not saying that I'm a good daughter and I have never done that before but its just when things happen in front of me , in front of my eyes , everyday , those things made me kept thinking . Is it really fair for us to repay our mother , our father in that way ? After all they've done for us . It's really unfair right ??

Daddy always told me , keep reminding me . Tawu tak , seorang anak tu , bercakap 'ah' pun dah berdosa , apatah lagi cakap ishh , bentak bentak tinggi suara bila bercakap dengan mak bapak .

p/s : thank you daddy for being such a lovely , supportive and understanding father . I <3 you :)

Day by day , we are growing up kan . so , why don't we think . Bila dah besar besar ni , boleh kira dengan jari berapa kali kena marah dengan parents . My parents just amek initiative untuk slow talk eversince I grow up ni . Dorang pun tawu , anak anak dah besar , dah boleh pk , beza kan yang baek dan burok . Bila dorang dah ada pandangan macam tu , meaning to say , dorang dah bagi kepercayaan dekat you guys .

Soooo , jaga diri , maruah diri , maruah family and most important , kepercayaan yang dorang bagi . Before nak buat something bad , pk family dulu . Mak ayah :) okay ? I believe you guys yang drop by dekat sini , semua dah besar besar and  knows how to diffrentiate between the good and the bad .

Take your time and think okay .